Money is not your answer to life!
I have seen how many good people are currupted in this world by money it has a strange power and can affect anyone! I would not want to be rich for a lot of reasons Lets take Society: first :
1. Society has changed and it has made life very hard for people to live unless you try to play by there rules they take the 'majority of the world population and decide to make it a rule ( that was kinda a strange sentence lol) lets say body image for example the way you look in the society is predefined so you want to look what 'they say looks good not what u might think so you try to 'buy the 'right (in style at that time clothes) eat the foods that are on the 'kool list then you have to be 'sexy looking so you diet (proly fail a few times) exerciese ( if you can get motivated ) and try to be what they want you to be so you wil l 'fit in? but this is costly so now the rich try to look good by sugery (that is not very good unless its medicaly nessasary) and that cost a lot so that puts a gape between people who have money and can afford surgery to get the sexy look and quick fix and the people who try the healthy way who do not have money but wish they did so they can look like that ! UGH So many people who would look beautiful withought any help from society who ruins your idea of what is cute and ugly.
Lets take Celebrities:
if you have money then you are fallowed around by people with camera's taking your picture then your life is put out into the public and most of what is told about your life is untrue! Celebrities are the most loved and the most hated people on earth who wants that? They have to spend there lives trying to make other people happy by doing what they (public) wants them to do, and if they don't then they are hated and mistreated. &nb sp; 2. there are staulkers and very crazy' fans of each celebrity and they there families are never realy 'save. You have death threats , bombs , invaders, robbers... people who want to be you at any cost. ( who wants to live a life in fear? ) &n bsp;   ; 3. You have money that makes you 'powerful, you can do good or bad with it , you can spend it for your own self being selfish and making people hate you more or u can use it to do good. Most celebrities however 'imho, are very selfish and do not use there money for good things but i do give credit for the one's who do use there money for good! 4. Celebrities believe that they are rich (powerful) and are above the law and can do what ever they want and there money will get them out of having to be punished. They also use there money to bully other people into doing what they want even if what they want is not a good thing. And they believe it will buy' them 'happyness , buy all the toys do all the things that will for the moment make them happy or satisfied however it is short lived and then they have to move on to something els. You cannot' buy friends ( not true friends ). I think that most celebrities are not truely happy 'imho.
If you are a regular person ( not a celebrity) and are born into money you grow up withought knowing what its like to be 'humble' therefore you do not see yourself as others see you, see you as selfish perhaps. If you grow up with others who are also came from being born into money then most often you will keep those people around you, friends family.
if you are someone who was not born with money but had enough and then for some reason you get money lets say you are willed some or win a small lotery. Then you find very fast what its like to have a taste of money for the most part people become greedy, selfish and irresponsible. If you let it take a hold over you , your life it can change a person and not for the best ( however there are some who are 'humble and do good with it and never have to act this way) I seen this happy to a girl ( nameless) she had no money and a lot of young children and lived a very poor life and already being selfish she was living day by day being selfish and making the wrong decisions and then she was 'willed some money. She was so overwhelmed she did not know what to do with it how to act and she went on shopping sprees spending the money so fast she was so happy became mean to her friends. then... the happyness ended as the money soon fanished. Back to being poor and having to try and make up to the friends she was mean to. ( i hope that left her with some kind of usefull lesson )
I also seen that a person who wants money and if they obses over it enough when they are given the change ( tempation) to be able to have it they will do things that they would not normaly do. They will change there life there personality they start to get this oddness about them they start out slowly by being mean to people caring more about money and objects and there own self happyness letting it have power over there lives. Not caring about others feelings. Then they stop being 'humble they start to only be greedy wanting more and more untill almost nothing will make them 'happy. They start to care only about themself nomater who they affect and how. Dont care how other people recieve them the way they act they start to think others owe them the world owes them that they are beter than anyone els..ect And i think that for those people they never can be happy unless they change compleatley.
One has to wonder however what it would take someone to understand that money is not power money is not happyness and we can live withought it for the most part. maybe the would have to become poor themselves to live in the other persons 'shoes for a while to see how people who are poor get treated by other 'poor people and how they are 'mistreated by people who are not poor, would that help , help them to see what happyness is ? God only knows.
For me i did not have money or hardly anything growing up and i like it that way i became humbled to this day that i can be 'happy being poor money does not make a person! I am humble and would rather sit for Gods sunset or see the wonderful tiny creatures in the woods than to do most anything that money can buy you. Sure i use money buying things cleaners to clean with , food to eat, clothes to wear.. but i don't go on cruses or go on thousand dallor vactions nor do i go and eat a dinner that cost $80 a plate! I am sad to see all the people in the world who have WAY less than i do and they are happyer than me! Who am i to complaine then when those people u see dont have shoes or water let alone toys and yet they sure are happy sitting around with there familys laughin and grinding rice. Sad to see all the ones that are starving to death or have no medicine to get beter. How can i a humble 'humane' caring person want anymore than is nessasary? ( and nessasary to me is FAR less than to most! )
well its almost 4am lolz so i have to git to bed :)
Gbu all
Gaby~
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